Making friends is an important aspect of life. Having a social support system can bring joy, companionship, and a sense of belonging. However, having too many friends can be annoying. They suck the life out of you by asking for favors. They are never there for you in return. So choose wisely.

Don’t be yourself: Be fake and phony. People say they appreciate honesty. However, when they ask you a question and don’t like your answer, their ego can’t take it. Then they will tell others that you are mean and hateful.

Don’t be open to new experiences others are trying to lure you into. This includes any multi-level marketing scheme such as cleaning products, essential oils, or something that will fix all your problems. These people will be your friends as long as you keep purchasing from them. Once they bleed you dry of money, they will discard you. It will be like throwing away an old television set with a broken CRT and no remote control.

Be “sort of” approachable: Don’t smile, but smirk, and don’t make eye contact. You don’t want people trying to create small talk.

Don’t post anything on Social media. This ties back to being fake and phony. If you must engage online, only show your highlight reel.

Volunteer: Volunteering is a great way to give back to your community. It can also help you meet new people. Find a cause you’re passionate about and look for volunteer opportunities in your area.

People love talking about themselves. Being a good listener is a great way to make friends. So try to interrupt them often about how whatever they’ve done, you’ve done it before and better.

In conclusion, making friends requires effort and a bit of courage. Do not be cowardly. Do not do the bare minimum to maintain friendships. If you put in the effort, you’d be surprised how many people will eventually stay with you.