Learn the Zipper Merge!

If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say?

Both lanes are used fully up to the merge point!

  • At the point where one lane ends, drivers take turns merging:
    • One car from the left lane
    • One car from the right lane
  • Just like the teeth of a zipper coming together.

When to Use It

✔ Heavy traffic
✔ Stop-and-go or slow-moving conditions
✔ Clearly marked lane closures (“Lane Ends Ahead”)

🚫 Not necessary in light traffic (early merging works fine when there’s plenty of space)


Why It Works

Traffic studies show zipper merging:

  • Reduces queue length by up to ~40%
  • Prevents one lane from backing up excessively
  • Reduces rear-end collisions
  • Keeps traffic flowing more evenly

Early merging in heavy traffic causes:

  • Long backups in one lane
  • Aggressive behavior
  • Lane blocking and sudden braking

Driver in the Ending Lane

  1. Stay in your lane until the merge point.
  2. Match the speed of traffic.
  3. Signal early.
  4. At the merge point, move smoothly into the open lane behind one vehicle.
  5. Do not stop unless traffic is stopped.

Driver in the Through Lane

  1. Expect cars to merge at the end.
  2. Leave one car length of space.
  3. Maintain a steady speed.
  4. Allow one vehicle in, then continue.
  5. Do not block the ending lane.

Blocking is unsafe and often illegal.


Common Myths (and the Truth)

❌ “Using the open lane until the end is cutting in line”
✅ It’s the intended design in heavy traffic.

❌ “Merging early is more polite.”
✅ Early merging actually makes congestion worse when traffic is heavy.

❌ “I should stop them from merging”
✅ Lane blocking increases crash risk and road rage.


Key Rule to Remember

Early merge in light traffic.
Zipper merge in heavy traffic.

Be mindful of your thoughts

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

I think I balance the anxiety and depression throughs evenly. Anxiety involves worrying about future events and making predictions that your brain is trying to prepare for, even though they may not actually occur.

Depression is worrying about all the things that have occurred in the past. Dumb things you say to people and ruminate over after they’ve probably long forgotten.

I try to spend more time thinking about the present and the tasks that need to be completed today. I’m working on enjoying the moment more and building memories with all five senses. You have to learn to kill the ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) as they try to invade your brain.

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger, and Impulsiveness

Eternal life

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

Do we all have eternal life? Whether it be with God or separated from God. Once the soul is created, is it ever destroyed? One would argue that being annihilated is more in line with God’s mercy than eternal life apart from God. In the case of justice, annihilationism is the ultimate comfort for evil-doers. If I know that there is an end to suffering, then why not just do whatever we want right now? Where is the justice in punishment for evil?

God will not force you into his presence for all eternity nor will he extinquish your existence. If you don’t want to be with God, then he will give you what you want. That’s the greatest gift.

University of the United States

What colleges have you attended?

When I applied to USA, the University of South Alabama, I thought of a movie scene. In the Eddie Murphy classic “Coming to America” he is asked about where he goes to school. “Well, it’s a very small university. We do not even have a basketball team.”

Work hard, play hard

Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

I don’t even know what playtime is. Does that mean you play with toys? Does that mean you play with video games? Does that mean you play a sport? I find very little time to play in the constant balance of work and family, but I know that I should play more as a part of a self-care routine. 

New Years Eve Traditions

In comparison to Halloween, New Year’s is my next least favorite holiday. New Year’s Eve television is more painful to watch than the Superbowl halftime show. Every year the debauchery and hedonism is cranked up another notch as the desensitizing of our culture continues down the slippery slope of depravity.

We make a bunch of snacks as the last hurrah for the diet that starts the next day. Or maybe we move the new diet to January 2nd, you know, leftovers. We stay up late to watch people grind each other on television while we listen to the horrific noises that pass for music that’s shoved in our ear canals for the hour leading up to the ball drop. Ball drops, people kiss, sing the same song every year, then go to bed.

New Year is just another day, there is nothing magical about January 1st. Don’t make promises to yourself that you can’t keep. If you want to change, change now or six months from now. Just make up your mind that you want to do it.

Best way to store all your digital photos.

Seems like everywhere you go during the year you take a thousand pictures of whatever place you visit. It used to be that only a few people had a camera and now everyone has a camera on their phone. How do you manage all those photos? Do you delete bad ones? Did you get them printed? Do you wait until your hard drive fills up and crashes so that you lose all of your memories? I say lose your memories because you were too busy fiddling with your phone rather than actually enjoying the event you attended.

Here’s my process and I keep it pretty simple. For the DSLR  I download pictures to my Macbook Photo Library and remove the undesirables. I sometimes will delete pictures off the camera if I know it’s already terrible. I pick a few that I really like and adjust the image to make it pop using iPhoto or just now Photos on the MacBook. Once a year I send our “school pictures” to Mpix.com and get them framed. I also use my favorite photos for my screen savers on my AppleTV and Computers. For my iPhone pictures and videos, I download them to the Macbook and do the same process there.

Once everything has been sorted and adjusted everything gets backed up onto an external drive on my home network. I went with Synology because it has an app that runs on my machine and will automatically backup my files to the NAS. If you are an Amazon Prime user, and who isn’t these days, there is a free app that will store unlimited photos. So if you segregate your pics and videos like I do, you can have that extra layer of security.

Taking your pet on vacation.

You take your dog everywhere. The grocery store, restaurants, movie theaters, and airplanes. I’m not talking about service dogs, I’m speaking of people’s pets.  Taking your dog everywhere is the cool and hip thing to do. So why not take it on vacation? After all, the dog is part of your family, so why not let it enjoy all of your adventures. However, if you don’t take your dog on vacation, please find someone who can look after them.

We have a cat and if we are gone for more than two days then we hire a house/pet sitter. We pay them to come and stay at our house. They sleep here, they eat here, and they take care of our pets. Cats are pretty easy to take care of and don’t need much attention. Cats really don’t need humans.

dogFace

However, if you have a dog, it’s a different story. Dogs need constant attention because they are highly social creatures. If you don’t hire a house sitter then take your puppers to the kennel where they can get social interaction. Leaving your dog in your house overnight and someone letting it out all day is unfair to your dog and your neighbors. The dog will bark all day because it’s lonely. If there are two dogs they will try to out-bark each other. If you are going to be cruel, take it up a notch and just throw on a shock collar and leave it outside in the cold. At least it won’t bother anyone else since you won’t be bothered with caring for your animals.

Running on Christmas Cheer Fumes

Every year we get super excited for Christmas and when December 25th rolls around we are ready for it to be over. One year I started way too early. We visited Disney Theme Parks the week before Thanksgiving and all the decorations were up and the holiday music was blasting. We had our Christmas tree up before Thanksgiving. I jumped the gun that year on the Holiday Cheer and ran on fumes.

Next year we will wait until Black Friday to start decorating. That way we don’t get burned out like a Yankee candle on the mantle all night. We are already removing Christmas items from the house and putting them back in storage. We usually wait until January 2nd. I think it makes Christmas gloomy.